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National That Sucks! Day

You can’t be cheery and optimistic every day. Sometimes, it really does just suck: that’s the point of National Suck Day, a time when you don’t have to pretend.

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History

That Sucks Day seems to have come out of nowhere as a vindictive dedication to all things that suck. Throughout the history of the holiday and the organization that sponsored it, That Sucks LLC, they seek to exemplify all that is terrible and wrong in the world.

As such they recognize historical figures (sometimes of questionable existence) that have been excellent representatives of suckage throughout the world.

Characters like the terrible seer Nostrasuckus who, rather than predicting a broad range of events specialized only in letting us know when things were going to suck.

Oddly, he appeared to be a terrible seer as well (unsurprisingly) as none of his predictions have come true. Which is hard to believe given the huge amount of suck in the world.

We can’t forget Evangelista Torricelli either, the man that proved that the ultimate in suckage technology existed, the vacuum, which of course was immediately followed by the invention of the vacuum pump. If the world didn’t suck before, whole new ways of sucking were surely on the way.

Did we mention that the American Tax Day, the Sinking of the Titanic, and Abraham Lincoln’s assassination all occurred on National That Sucks! Day? Yeah, it really is that bad of a day.

FAQ

Is it psychologically healthy to say “that sucks” and complain about bad days?

Psychologists note that brief, specific complaining can be healthy because it validates emotions and can help people feel heard, especially when it leads to problem solving or social support. However, frequent, generalized complaining that focuses only on what is wrong can reinforce negative thinking, increase stress, and strain relationships. Research on “co-rumination” shows that repeatedly dwelling on problems with others is linked to higher anxiety and depression, especially when no action is taken.

What is the difference between venting and rumination?

Venting usually means expressing feelings about a situation in the moment and then moving on, often to feel relief or gain perspective. Rumination involves repeatedly replaying negative events, thoughts, or feelings without resolution. Studies on emotion regulation find that venting that includes reappraisal or problem solving can reduce distress, whereas persistent rumination tends to prolong negative mood and increase the risk of anxiety and depression.

Can sharing complaints with friends actually bring people closer?

Shared complaining can strengthen social bonds when people feel understood and supported. Social psychologists have found that disclosing frustrations can increase feelings of closeness if listeners respond with empathy, validation, and sometimes humor. The benefit drops, however, when conversations become cycles of mutual negativity or “co-rumination,” where problems are revisited without looking for solutions or positive perspectives.

How does chronic negativity affect physical health?

Long-term patterns of pessimism and hostility are associated with higher levels of stress hormones, inflammation, and cardiovascular risk. Research on stress and health shows that people who habitually focus on the worst outcomes and interpret events in a consistently negative way have higher rates of coronary heart disease and may experience more physical symptoms. By contrast, cultivating more balanced or optimistic thinking is linked to better immune function and longevity.

Are some cultures more accepting of open complaining than others?

Yes. Cross-cultural research finds that in more individualistic societies, like the United States, open self-expression, including voicing dissatisfaction, is more accepted as a route to authenticity and change. In many collectivist cultures, including parts of East Asia, people may avoid direct complaining to preserve social harmony and save face, instead using indirect hints or humor. These cultural norms shape when and how people say something “sucks” in public or private.

Can humor make it easier to cope with all the things that “suck” in life?

Using humor to reframe frustrations is a well-studied coping strategy. Research on “affiliative” and “self-enhancing” humor shows that joking about difficulties, without attacking oneself or others, can reduce stress and help people see setbacks as more manageable. This type of humor is associated with better psychological well-being, whereas hostile or self-defeating humor is linked to higher distress. Laughing at life’s annoyances can be a way to cope rather than deny problems.

How can someone acknowledge that things are bad without becoming overly pessimistic?

Psychologists often recommend “realistic optimism,” which involves recognizing genuine problems while also looking for factors that can be changed and potential positive outcomes. Cognitive behavioral approaches encourage people to notice negative automatic thoughts, test them against evidence, and balance them with more accurate appraisals. This allows someone to say a situation “sucks” when it truly does, yet still focus on coping strategies, boundaries, and hope for improvement.