Talk in Third Person Day
Talk in Third Person Day is a quirky and fun occasion, encouraging people to refer to themselves in the third person. Imagine narrating your actions like a character in a story.
Leverage third-person narration as a viral social-media challenge to boost engagement and brand personality through humorous, relatable video content.
- Day-in-the-life montage challenge: caption every action in third person and tag brands
- Mock interview or sports-commentator style product reviews using third-person narration
- User-generated video challenge: 'How does [brand] describe you in third person?'
- Influencer takeovers where creators narrate their brand interactions like nature documentaries
Talk in Third Person Day began in 2006, inspired by the fun and unique perspective it offers. This quirky celebration was created to encourage people to talk about themselves as if they were someone else.
Linguistically, the behavior itself has a long history. Referring to oneself in the third person is sometimes called “illeism,” a term used to describe self-reference by name instead of “I.”
Writers have used this technique for centuries to create a dramatic effect, show a character’s detachment, or build a distinct voice. Leaders, athletes, and performers have also used it as a rhetorical move, often to sound larger-than-life or to separate the public persona from the private self.
In everyday life, third-person self-reference can pop up for surprisingly ordinary reasons. Parents sometimes use it with young children (“Mommy is getting your shoes”), and caregivers may do the same to simplify language or model names and roles.
People also slip into it for humor, especially when telling stories or teasing friends. Talk in Third Person Day takes that occasional habit and turns it into a deliberate, shared experiment: what happens when people act like the narrator of their own lives for a while?
The day has grown in popularity over the years because it is easy to participate in and instantly noticeable. No special supplies are required, and the results are immediate.
Some people celebrate for a few minutes as a joke; others commit for longer and discover that the shift changes not just how they sound, but how they think. Whether someone treats it as a comedy bit or a mini language lab, the day’s appeal comes from the same place: it makes the familiar feel new.
Speak Like a Narrator
Celebrate by narrating your daily actions out loud. “John brushes his teeth” or “Sarah makes coffee” will bring smiles. To make it more fun, lean into different narrator styles. One person can try a serious nature-documentary tone, another can act like a sports commentator calling a big game, and someone else can go full mystery novel: “Patricia approaches the refrigerator, unaware of what she is about to find.” This works especially well with mundane tasks, because the contrast is the joke. Folding laundry becomes “Morgan completes the ancient ritual of matching socks.” Taking out the trash becomes “Devon bravely faces the bins.” The goal is not perfection. It is to notice how quickly the brain adapts to a new speaking pattern and how much comedy can hide in routine moments. For a gentler version, people can use third person only when describing emotions or decisions: “Taylor is feeling impatient, so Taylor is taking a breath.” It can sound funny, but it also sneaks in a moment of self-awareness.
Create Videos
Film yourself speaking in the third person and share it on social media. “Lucy thinks this video is hilarious!” Watch how your friends react and maybe even join in. Short formats work best because the joke lands quickly, but longer clips can be fun if they build a little storyline. A simple challenge is to record a “day in the life” montage where every caption uses a name instead of “I.” Another idea is a mock interview: one person asks questions, and the other answers entirely in third person, like a celebrity on a red carpet. “Yes, Marcus does enjoy snacks. Marcus believes snacks are essential.” For anyone who prefers to keep things private, making a video without sharing it still counts. Watching it later can be unexpectedly revealing. People often notice their habits, facial expressions, and routines more clearly when the language makes them feel like an observer.
Write a Story
Compose a short story featuring yourself as the main character. Use the third person throughout. “Michael saves the day with his quick thinking.” This activity can spark creativity and make you feel like a hero in your tale. To add depth, write in a few different genres. A person might write a serious version first, then rewrite the same scene as comedy. Or try writing a scene where the narrator is a little skeptical: “Casey insists Casey will start exercising tomorrow. The narrator has heard this one before.” The third person can be a playful way to acknowledge human contradictions without getting stuck in self-judgment. Journaling fans can adapt the idea into a “third-person diary.” Instead of “I felt overwhelmed,” it becomes “Jamie felt overwhelmed and decided to take things one step at a time.” That small shift can make it easier to describe feelings clearly and kindly, like writing about someone worth rooting for.
Play Games
Gather friends for a game where everyone has to speak about themselves in the third person. Think lines like, “Tom wants to play charades” or “Linda chooses the word.” It sounds easy, but it quickly turns into a laughter-filled challenge and works perfectly as an icebreaker. The idea fits almost any party game, and you can tweak the rules to suit the group: Conversation jar: Everyone writes simple prompts on slips of paper, such as “tell a childhood story,” “describe a favorite food,” or “explain your last hobby attempt.” When someone draws a prompt, they must respond using only the third person.Third-person taboo: Choose a topic and ban first-person pronouns. If someone slips and says “I” or “me,” they either give a point to the group or do a silly reset line like, “Sasha regrets that Sasha said ‘I.’”Role swap: Everyone refers to themselves and others only by first names, as if the room were a cast list. It sounds straightforward, but once people get animated, it becomes surprisingly hard—and very funny. In workplaces or classrooms, keeping it light works best. A quick “third-person round” during introductions can break the ice without taking over the session. Something like, “Priya works in accounting, and Priya takes coffee very seriously,” is usually enough to get a few laughs and loosen the mood.
Reflect on Benefits
Take a moment to think about how speaking this way can help manage emotions. “Emma notices she feels calmer when she talks like this.” Enjoy the surprising mental health benefits while having fun. One way to explore the reflective side is to use third-person self-talk as a quick reset during stress. Someone can silently say their name and describe what is happening: “Nico is nervous before the meeting. Nico is going to breathe slowly and focus on the first question.” The structure naturally encourages concrete next steps instead of vague panic. It can also be used for decision-making. When stuck between options, a person might ask, “What would be best for Jordan?” rather than “What should I do?” That phrasing can reduce the mental noise that comes from pressure, guilt, or people-pleasing, and it can make values and priorities easier to hear. Finally, it helps to remember the social context. Third-person talk is funny, but it is also unusual. The most enjoyable celebrations are the ones that keep it friendly and flexible. If someone seems confused or uncomfortable, it is easy to drop the bit and return to normal speech. The goal is playful experimentation, not making communication harder. Used with a little common sense, Talk in Third Person Day offers two wins at once: a steady supply of jokes and a subtle reminder that the words people choose can shape how they feel.